11 Key Signs Of Maturity

Lukas Schwekendiek
3 min readFeb 3, 2024
Photo by Mykyta Martynenko on Unsplash
  1. You Feel In Control Of Yourself — You’re not a slave to your emotions or the opinions of other people. You remain in control and cognizant of yourself and your actions in most situations.
  2. You Are Proactive, Not Reactive — Instead of waiting for life to throw problems your way to which you must react, you go out of your way to find solutions and eliminate problems before they start.
  3. You Have Values That You Uphold No Matter What — Beliefs or Priorities that cannot be broken because they are an integral part of you. You will uphold these regardless of the situation because, in almost every situation, the situation has less potential rewards than the feeling of upholding those values and beliefs.
  4. You Work In Spite Of How You Feel — While immature people will work only when they feel like it, you know that you must do certain things. Experience has taught you that there are hardships on the other side of procrastination that you do not wish to see.
  5. You Hold The Wisdom Of Various Experiences — Immature people are often ignorant. They do not know the world because they have not experienced any variety of things. This keeps them immaturely ignorant of the world and they make mistakes due to that ignorance.
  6. You Know What You Want — Not all the time, not in every situation, but for most of your life and…

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Lukas Schwekendiek
Lukas Schwekendiek

Written by Lukas Schwekendiek

Life Coach, Speaker, Writer. Published on TIME, Inc & Huffington Post. Coaching available again! Email: Lukas.schwekendiek@gmail.com with the word "Coaching"

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