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A Few Advantages To Singledom
3 min readAug 22, 2023
- Utter and total freedom. You are completely free when you are single and have no one to satisfy in any way, shape or form. You can do what you want, when you want, for whatever reason you want without being expected to fulfill the “partner” role or to make them happy.
- No compromises on what you really want. A lot of the times you compromise with your partner on things you really want to go all the way in, and they really don’t. This makes you not get everything you want in life and sometimes that is not a price you wanted to pay.
- Only dealing with your own sh*t. You are expected to be there for your partner 100% of the time and help them out when they need it. Yet, often you are too swamped yourself to really help them out and have too many things going on, and then they come and unload all their crap on you as well.
- Never being tracked on your time. Your partner often wants you to spend as much time with them as possible, so when you tell them no, or that you want to do other things, they track that. This can be awesome for you actually doing what you said you would, but awful if you are just trying to get a quiet hour in every once in a while.
- More money to spend on what you want. There is no one else to buy gifts for or surprise or go on vacation with. It is just you and you can spend your money whichever way you…
