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Become More Fun: 5 Steps To Being More Fun & Enjoying Life More
The most important thing if you want to be more fun is to have more fun.
We are always attracted to those that have what we want, meaning we want to be around those that have fun because we want to have fun.
No one wants to be around a person that makes them feel bored or more negative, but most of us want to be next to those that make us feel happy, uplifted, inspired or motivated.
Having a lot of fun and positive energy attracts other people.
So, if you want to be more fun than you have to create more fun.
You can create the most positive emotions in others more easily when you take them along for the ride, not when you elevate them in your stead.
Imagine you are linked with anyone and everyone you interact with by a set of chains.
When you try to elevate others by holding yourself back, they will still be limited by your negative mood as long as they stick around you, for the cannot escape the shackles that link the two of you together.
This will make them feel forced to elevate your mood, to be dragged down again by you, or to leave, and most will feel so limited that they chose to leave your presence so they are freer to enjoy themselves.
