Becoming Fun — Combat Loneliness & Become A Person Others Wish To Be Around
First, a few Questions:
- How often are you going out?
- How much fun are you having by yourself when you are going out?
- How many people do you talk to or try to engage in conversations?
- How often do you invite people to do fun & unique things with you?
- How much of your joys do you share with others?
If you want to be fun to be around you have to create an atmosphere of fun.
As a prerequisite that already means that you need to go out & have fun before you even factor in other people.
You can create the best atmosphere at home, but it is unlikely people will notice that and/or try to break into your house just because there’s possible fun to be had.
Similarly, you can go out all you want, but if just stand there in an awkward silence and seem bored or unhappy to be there, people will avoid you to avoid the energy you bring with you.
This is why so many people recommend that you become happy first, before you try to find love.
It is the far better option as that makes other people bonuses rather than requirements, and works the same way with any social connection.
