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Change Your Personality: 7 Steps To A Better Self

Lukas Schwekendiek
4 min readMar 12, 2023

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There are ways to change everything about our personality. We can become more confident, more outgoing, more charismatic, and improve just about everything else about ourselves, but we must first ask ourselves:

Who do we want to become?

At the end of it all, who do you want to be?

The fact is that we change every single day. Our experiences transform us into a new person, shape our points of views and make us act differently in each new situation we come across.

This means that you are already changing every day, and you will continue to change every day, whether you like it or not.

You cannot stop yourself from changing, but you can direct where you want that change to go.

You can read books on the topics you want to improve upon, surround yourself with people that have the qualities you wish to have, and partake in the activities that your heroes suggest.

Doing this will not make it guaranteed that you get to become who you want to be, but at least gives you the opportunity to show up.

What you are trying to do is to create as many situations as possible that help nurture your growth into who you want to be.

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Lukas Schwekendiek
Lukas Schwekendiek

Written by Lukas Schwekendiek

Life Coach, Speaker, Writer. Published on TIME, Inc & Huffington Post. Coaching available again! Email: Lukas.schwekendiek@gmail.com with the word "Coaching"

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