I Learned Everything From Failure

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Everything I teach is something I likely failed at myself.

I learned that you have to give your all in love (and life) or you will get nothing in return, have learned that your career and business can only progress if you put in the time, and that it does not matter how often people reach out to you, for if you feel lonely that is something that you have to work out yourself first.

I learned that life does not wait, and whilst I was struggling, people kept growing and improving to the point where they passed me by.

I learned that an awful job is better than no job, because not knowing where your next meal comes from is worse than any job can be.

I learned that you cannot leave your life for someone else, no matter how much you love them, for if you are not happy first, the sacrifice of that happiness will come back to bite you.

And I learned that it does not matter how consistently or hard you work on things in the moment, but rather that you do something every day, for what matters in the end is the total amount, and the small things add up far more than the big ones.

In my life, I failed many partners by not being a partner that went the extra step, trying to pretend everything is okay when it wasn’t. I pushed them away, did not love them the way they…