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The Truth About Starting Over
There is no start.
Life happens 24/7, with no pause, breaks or save points.
It is a smooth, endless, transition from one moment to the next and is never not happening.
As such, there is no start, reset, or stop; it just keeps going.
Trying to “restart” is impossible.
You have lived through what you lived through, lost the time you lost, experienced what you experienced, and are who you are now.
You cannot start from scratch in anything.
So just live.
Keep living or live better now.
Focus on this moment and what you can do going forward.
The past cannot be changed, it happened the way it did and no amount of restarting or wishing to start again will make you able to do that.
But you can develop a completely different life now.
Consider New Years Resolutions.
Many people only start something new at the beginning of the week or the beginning of the year, but it is an arbitrary start.
There is no one that says you cannot start a resolution on May 26th at 3:13 a.m.
The idea that it has to be a Monday, or the first day of the year, or even in…
