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What Makes A Person Charming?
People are charming that can gain a deeper sense of the person in front of them or those that have a deeper sense of who they are.
The first kind of charming person will often invest in the conversation deeply, keep in mind what matters to the person in front of them and can relate that to them in a very honest, direct and deep way without any effort.
Basically, they are charming people because they care.
They want to empower the person in front of them, make them feel better and give up their spot in the limelight for the other person.
Examples of this can be seen in movie Interviews where one person clearly puts all the credit and compliments to the other person they are interviewing with.
Chris Hemsworth’s interviews are a great example of this.
When you talk with a charming person that understands you on a deeper level, or one that tries to empower you, it feels like a comfortable knife.
They pierce right through your barriers, but do so only to cut away at the grime and dirt that you have been carrying with you.
You may resist this at first, because you might be unsure of what their intent is by pulling out this knife, but when they are done you feel much easier and freer than before.
